Love my (30f) partner (37m) but need advice about breaking up because I don’t want kids

2021.10.25 13:50 ApprehensiveAnt2482 Love my (30f) partner (37m) but need advice about breaking up because I don’t want kids

So me(30f) and my partner(37m) have been together for nearly 5 years, we have lots in common and generally get on well, but he wants children and I really don’t. There’s a few reasons I don’t, I’m scared of pregnancy, terrified of childbirth, the sleepless nights for years and financial and environmental burden of having a child. I’m almost certain he is emotionally abusive as well and I can’t justify bringing a child into a relationship like that. We never had a real conversation about wanting kids and he just assumed I did, I tried to talk to him about it a few months ago saying I wasn’t sure and he basically said it was stupid to be afraid of childbirth etc and that I was wasting/had wasted his time if I don’t want kids, but I was 26 when we met and kids were far in the distance. He lost his partner and child about 15 years ago in a car crash and so this makes me feel worse. I’m scared of causing a massive blow out argument but I think I should leave him so I don’t take anymore of his time up and feel like I’m leading him on or will end up having a baby and resenting him/the child and feeling trapped. We had sex this morning and I felt like crying the whole time because I know a break up is probably inevitable. How do I approach this conversation? I know it’s going to hurt so I just take the verbal and leave with my tail between my legs?
TL;DR - scared of all things pregnancy and child birth, think he’s emotionally abusive too but confused, feel like I’ve wasted my partners time, how do I leave in the best way possible?
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2021.10.25 13:50 Inner_Delay_3964 Should I drop out?

More than a month here at UC Davis, and still completely alone. No friends, no dates, no acquaintances. Nobody wants to talk to me, and I always have to eat alone and miserable in DC. All girls ignore me. I couldn’t make any single friend, and couldn’t have a normal conversation with a girl. Nobody invites me to parties. I feel like college is not for me. Looks like for most people going back to in-person after the pandemic was a blessing, but for me it’s only loneliness. Maybe college is not for me. I’m doing terrible in the quizzes and midterms (even though I had a GPA of 3.76 before transferring). So any advice? Should I just drop out of college? Anyone with a similar experience?
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2021.10.25 13:50 moonwife222 Never coming back.

Awful fucking festival. $8 for water at every station. $10 can of beer, $15 sad ass flappy ass school lunch ass chicken sandwich that didn’t have any of the toppings the menu said it did. There was barely any signage to indicate where the stages were, got lost every time I needed to change stages. Portable bathroom sinks ran out of water before festival was over so we couldn’t even wash our hands. Venue was way too small for how many people there were. I had to move back from the khraungbin set so I wouldn’t pass out. If you’re going to host a festival with over 60,000 people in downtown Miami when it’s 84 degrees, at least have free water, water is a right and necessity and was treated like a luxury. We couldn’t even bring our own food or water so we were forced to pay for that shit!! I will never give iii points or liquid death my money ever again. Evil horrible companies with no regard for the paying customers. Yves Tumor set was amazing though. Fuck iii points and if you’re thinking about going next year save your money and just go to the artists’ individual show.
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2021.10.25 13:50 Pale_Chapter Twilight Force - Winds of Wisdom [2019]

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2021.10.25 13:50 BigDickCum What are some standout cards in this cube.


due to a lack of experience I am pretty bad a gauging the power levels of cards in cube, and since the Cubecobra elo tool is broken I am asking you about some cards I could look to cut in my cube. Mostly looking for cards that are too good/bad or just generally out of place. The cube is drafted in a very casual environment and has been very fun so far. Thanks in advance.
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2021.10.25 13:50 Ahntmizin Found this today in Rotterdam NL, first pic are obviously boletes, but i was wondering about the other one, found on the ground around the boletes, next to a small tree besides a bikinglane

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2021.10.25 13:50 stayrobble HaramKebab Subreddit Statistics

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2021.10.25 13:50 paleoterrra Looking for more alien/first contact type movies. Any recommendations?

Been on a bit of an alien/space/first contact-related binge and hoping to find some new good ones to watch.
I have seen so many it would be counter productive to post here so I’ll just say I’ve seen most of the main ones like the Alien movies, Arrival, and such.
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2021.10.25 13:50 Toasts_like_smell Will the DS 7 crossback beat the Renault wind in the yellow bird Chambery 3 trial? Will anything but the Safrene Biturbo?

For all those caught up in perhaps the most frustrating stage of the yellowbird trial, what do the successful use besides a Kadjar and a safrene?
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2021.10.25 13:50 DeepBeneathTheOcean LVL 500 No Heirloom Shards

What am I doing wrong, hahaha? Played since Season 1 on PS4 and I’ve never gotten any heirloom shards. 🥲
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2021.10.25 13:50 marcol-copperpot [Round 102620] Please provide the coordinates of the streetview car.

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2021.10.25 13:50 thigh_lover_ Converted and painted Remiare, from the Mechsnicum novel

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2021.10.25 13:50 BellaGeisha334 Who should I get herb or parfait?

Im a bit new so like who is the better healer and supporter?
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2021.10.25 13:50 sbelver [FREE] Damjonboi x BabyFace Ray x Veeze Type Beat 2021 “Prices” | Detroit Type Beat 2021

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2021.10.25 13:50 hgisudhviladshgjkld What is the best safari dark mode extension?

What is the best safari dark mode extension?
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2021.10.25 13:50 fifidog1 I need advice on who will have to pay the mortgage to this house that was left to me.

Here’s a story: my brother lives in a house but this house was put into the will as being left to me. If i inherit these house but it has a mortgage on it that is under my deceased father’s name and my brother who is alive and living in that house (was not willed to him in the deed) do I owe all of the mortgage when I sell the house, does my brother owe it because it has his name on it, or do we need to split it because he’s the only living person left listen on the mortgage and the house was left to me?
Attention: brother is only paying the interest to the mortgage but not any of the actual amount of mortgage. Mortgage is 100,000.
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2021.10.25 13:50 AffiliateLeakz REAL ESTATE vs STOCK MARKET

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2021.10.25 13:50 DangerousBody6571 For everyone on the waiting list

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2021.10.25 13:50 420zry [22]I need a sugar daddy to spoil me and I also sell content 😛 dm!

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2021.10.25 13:50 Logical_Decision_706 How do I get started?

Okay so I’m a new Star Wars fan, currently going through all the canon in chronological order (currently on season 2 of Star Wars Rebels, and I’m really liking the journey). I’ve never been into comics that much, like in general not just SW related. I saw this pic of a sith in this time, and I think it’s intriguing. Now yes, ik the sith aren’t the main focus I just thought it would be cool to actually see some sith from before Palpatine. So, 2 questions:

  1. Where exactly do I start? Do I start from the high republic marvel comics? Or do I start with the Light of the Jedi novel (btw, is this a novel as in like…a BOOK, or a graphic novel like a comic book?)
  2. Without EXCESSIVE spoiling, was that sith I mentioned (Darth Krall I think his name is), an actual plot point, or was it just like a flashback or illusion or something and he doesn’t actually exist? Cuz I kinda would like to see a genuinely new sith from a while back that isn’t the iconic Palpatine or Vader.
Thanks in advance for the help and advice.
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2021.10.25 13:50 deathzero021 Projectile trajectory (math)

So I'm trying to calculate what angle to fire a projectile that is affected by gravity based on a position im aiming for. So the input would be (x, y) for the target, the time and gravity would be constant, let's say 2 seconds (120 steps) and 0.25 pixels per step for gravity.
At first I thought to have the angle fixed at 45 degrees, and have the velocity be variable but that doesn't seem right, the projectile speed would increase too much as distance grows.
So the better approach should be changing the angle to hit the target, perhaps with some restrictions like not going beyond 90 degrees (straight up) or below 0 (straight ahead) though I suppose that doesn't matter too much.
Anyway it's been a long time since I've done any math more complicated than arithmetic. I've been reading math articles on projectile trajectory but I haven't been successful in implementing it.
If anyone here can help me out with this I'd greatly appreciate it.
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2021.10.25 13:50 MaironGui3 Isso é um desrespeito com os esquizofrênicos.

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2021.10.25 13:50 AmerExperience Miksi ihmeessä matkustaa Maltalle?

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2021.10.25 13:50 Lsdandcupcakes Gets depersonalisation from synthetic cannabis, I could be wrong but isn’t it only psychedelics that do this

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